Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts

Monday, July 3, 2023

Matthew Bring Your Children to Jesus

 

Matthew

Bring Your Children to Jesus

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Parents it is not always easy to get your children to Jesus

You may have to press through whining and disciples

Who are not understanding of children’s needs, to develop good mental health

Minds filled with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,

Faithfulness, gentleness and self-control

The mechanics of math, language, science, shop, sports, etc. are important

But without godly character their lives

  And the lives of others, will cause serious harm

As I saw a little girl waving to me,

I had visions of myself as a little boy

Where people in church reached out to me with love and kindness

My life has been shaped as my mind developed in those formative years

My parents brought me to Jesus and I found love, kindness, joy peace

And a desire to developed self-discipline to please Jesus who gave me so much

Parents, the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to your children

Make sure they get to Jesus

Disciples of Jesus, make sure you see little children with great importance

Like Jesus does     

Cover them with the hand of blessing and prayers

For they will grow up and change the world 

 

Bring Your Children to Jesus

 

On Sunday mornings,

 I stand outside one of the

main meeting room doors at church.

 

I love to smile and give greetings

to the people coming into the service.

 

One Sunday morning

a little girl came in with her parents,

in her daddy’s arms.

 

I greeted Mom and Dad

and gave a wave with my hand to the little girl.

 

She looked a little puzzled

as they walked by in that brief moment.

 

Because the fog from the fog machine

causes me health issues…

 

 I stand at the door in the hallway where

I can worship until time for the message.

 

During the worship this dad brought

out his little girl and I waved at her again.

 

The dad carried her down the hallway

and sat her down.

 

She had to be less then 2 feet tall

and she was not real stable on her feet.

 

After her father sat her down,

she turned to me at the other end of the hallway

and waved to me and I waved back.

She walked a little closer stumbling into the wall

and waved again and I waved back.

 

This happened 4 or 5 times till she

had gotten within a few feet of me.

 

She walked into the service with her dad following her

and saw an usher who was looking forward

and did not see her.

 

 I could tell she was wanting to wave

to the usher and for him to wave back.

 

I realized I was making a big difference in her life.

 

Her enjoyment of being recognized with kindness

brought out in her joy to give recognition and kindness to others.

 

As a little child, her mind was being shaped

and I got to be a part of it.

 

I believe for the rest of her life she will

recognize people with a smile and kindness.

 

I pray no one ever harms her child-like love.

 

We bring our children to a lot of people.

 

We bring them to family to build family values.

 

We bring our children to schools to get an education.

 

We bring our children to baby sitters and TV to get a break.

 

We bring our children to many people and things.

 

 Some of those people and things are with a lot of thought…

 And others just seem to happen.

 

We see Jesus took a very strong view of the value

and violability of children in Matthew 18:2 when…

 

 He took a little child to illustrate who were

the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.

 

Now, in Matthew 19:13, parents were

bringing their little children to Him.

 

The purpose was to get Jesus to lay

His hands on them and bless them.

 

The disciples saw this as a distraction.

 

They saw this as unimportant.

 

They saw this as a bother.

 

They forgot the importance Jesus puts on children.

 

The need to protect their minds

and shape their minds with the values

of the Kingdom of Heaven.

 

Jesus says…

 

"Let the little children come to me,

and do not hinder them,

 for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."

Matthew 19:14

 

We bring our children to lots of places and things.

 

To the child’s mind they are taking it all in without question.

 

Little children have no filter…

 

The good and the bad both get imbedded

in the mind of a child and it is the shape of their mind

as they grow into adulthood that effects

their decisions the rest of their lives.

 

I have questions why we have so much mental health problems.

 

Is it genetic?…

 

 Something people are born with?

 

In some cases it is.

 

But I think more than we want to admit…

 

 Mental health issues stem from our formative years.

 

We, ourselves, can be their biggest enemy if…

 

 We do not understand proper love and how to give it.

 

I say proper love because the definition of love means

a lot of things that are not true love.

 

It is this understanding of love we lack in…

 

Like the disciple, who wanted to

keep the children away from Jesus.

 

The disciples were good people

but they did not see the value and need

of the children being with Jesus.

 

These parents, who were bringing their children to Jesus,

know the need of their children.

The need to be touched by Jesus.

 

 To see Jesus’ hand on them, blessing them.

 

To be prayed for by Jesus

that they might have access to the Father,

like Jesus.

 

I am sure some of the children the parents were bringing to Jesus

were whining, and fussing.

 

Yet, it did not stop the parents…

 

 But it did the disciples.

 

Parents…

 

 It is not always easy to get your children to Jesus.

 

You may have to press through

the whining, and disciples, who are not understanding

of children’s needs to develop good mental health.

 

Minds filled with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,

goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

 

The mechanics of math, language, science, shop, sports, etc.

are important…

 

 But without godly character their lives,

 and the lives of others, will cause serious harm.

 

As I saw that little girl waving to me…

 

I had visions of myself as a little boy

where people in church reached out to me

with love and kindness.

 My life has been shaped as my mind

developed in those formative years.

 

My parents brought me to Jesus…

 

And I found love, kindness, joy peace,
and a desire to developed self-discipline

to please Jesus who gave me so much.

 

Parents…

 

 The Kingdom of Heaven belongs to your children.

 

 Make sure they get to Jesus.

 

Disciples of Jesus…

 

 Make sure you see little children

with great importance like Jesus does.

      

Cover them with the hand of blessing and prayers…

 

For they will grow up and change the world.  

 

 

 

Scripture Reading

 

Matthew 19:13-15 NIV

 

13 Then little children were brought to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked those who brought them.

 

14 Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."  15 When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.

 

Monday, June 12, 2017

Being Successful The Family in Training



Being Successful
The Family in Training 


A parent cannot give a child everything they need in life
They must make their own accomplishments
But parents can give their children faith and the discipline
They will need to lay the foundation for their lives
The training a child in the way they should go when properly done
Allows the child to become whatever God calls them to be
Because they will have been taught Wisdom, Knowledge,
Understanding and Discernment
These things will grow because they will have known the value of Discipline
The rewards of Faith and Discipline lead to successful living 



The Family in Training

Life…. What is more amazing?

Life ….What is more wonderful?

In the beginning God created life of all forms in the earth.

God has given us this power to create life.

If you are a mother or father chances are you under-
stand what it is to be filled with amazement and wonder.

With creating life comes the greatest
responsibility a person can have.

You have heard it said,
 “Nothing is more important than family”.

Success starts at home
1 Timothy 3:4,5

For those of us who realize God is the author of life,
we realize there is a second birth that must
take place to make the first birth of any value.

Jesus said, “You must be born again”.

The first birth is by the will of the parents.

The second birth is “through faith”.

The first responsibility as parents
is to instill faith in our children.

We can give our children the whole world but
if they lose their soul in Hell what value is that.

In order to have faith you must have discipline.

You cannot keep the faith without Discipline.

The Book of Proverbs starts out with…

“The proverbs of Solomon son of David, king of Israel:
for attaining wisdom and discipline ; for understanding words of insight;
 for acquiring a disciplined and prudent life
Proverbs 1:1-3 NIV

Proverbs starts out with and continues throughout
the Book with the importance of “Discipline”.
  
Discipline… there is a lot of theories on the subject.

It takes discipline to be successful in life.
 
Discipline means to correct.

There are many ways to bring correction.

Sometimes correction comes easy and other
times it has to come the hard way.

Discipline at times requires punishment.

In raising children Proverbs gives us some
good advice concerning discipline.

Discipline used properly is a demonstration of true love.
 Proverbs 13:24

Proper discipline has proper objectives…

To remove foolishness from a child
 Proverbs 22:15

To save the soul of a child
Proverbs 23:13,14

To impart wisdom and avoid shame
Proverbs 29:15

 Proper discipline has rewards such as peace and delight
Proverbs 29:17

 Discipline at the time is not pleasant but later in life the child
 who sees the discipline was in love and helps them
later in life, will love you and show gratefulness.
  
Discipline must be applied before the situation
gets out of hand (while there is still hope).

Discipline must also be applied under controlled
circumstances (do not be willing party to his death)
Proverbs 19:18

Discipline is not to be used to vent your anger
Ephesians 6:4

A very familiar verse in Proverbs concerning
the wisdom of childrearing is Proverbs 22:6.

Train a child in the way he should go, and when
he is old he will not turn from it.

The word “Train” means to start with discipline.

Spiritual discipline develop self-control.

As children grow they develop skills and
their personality become more obvious.

It is the early disciplines of their character and the disciplines
of how to gain wisdom, knowledge and self-control that will
give them the freedom to become all God has gifted them to be.

If your child wants to be a pilot and fly jets you can help them
achieve their goals even though you would not be caught any
higher than the first step on a step ladder.

The disciplines we give our children are the start to a
time when they will need to discipline themselves.

Because you must have self-discipline to be successful.
  
A parent cannot give a child everything they need in life.

They must make their own accomplishments.

But parents can give their children faith and the discipline
they will need to lay the foundation for their lives.

The training a child in the way they should go when properly
done allows the child to become whatever God calls them to be.

Because they will have been taught Wisdom, Knowledge,
Understanding and Discernment and these things will
grow because they will have known the value of Discipline.

The rewards of Faith and Discipline lead to successful living.  


Scripture Reading

 Proverbs 22:15
15 Folly is bound up in the heart of a child,
but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him.

Proverbs 23:13-14
13 Do not withhold discipline from a child;
if you punish him with the rod, he will not die.
14 Punish him with the rod
and save his soul from death.  

Proverbs 29:17
17 Discipline your son, and he will give you peace;
he will bring delight to your soul.

Proverbs 19:18
18 Discipline your son, for in that there is hope;
do not be a willing party to his death.